I am outing myself.....

Hey Gorgeous! 


So I have a confession to make to you and to be honest this is something I have thought about coming out and talking about more, but every time I think about including it in my e-mails I back down.  I haven't written about it because I thought it might not be of interest for you, or that you would think it was so random and unrelated to building a business.  

But it actually IS related. 

Not only does it relate to business, but it is HOW I do business. Yes, it is related to the feminine but it is something even more.  

I run my business just like I attract mendate them and have them so excited to serve my every desire.  

Now before you close the e-mail huffing and puffing that, "it is so much easier for me to say that" because of whatever story you have going on, listen...It hasn't always been this way.

There was actually a time when I didn't think I was very attractive to men; and I had no idea how to date. I know it may not seem like that now, but that is the truth.  In fact, there was a "turtleneck Lauren phase" where I would wear the most unfortunate clothing to cover up and hide myself (unfortunately, or fortunately all archives of that phase have been destroyed haha).  I would chase men who weren't really interested, or I just wouldn't date and tell myself it was because "I was so busy", or "it is so difficult to find great men".  But the fact was I didn't want to be rejected.  Sound familiar?

The transformation into a man magnet did not come without work, but it was pretty simple,  and like I said, I use how I relate to men and dating as my approach to my business.  

Let me break it down a little more: 

Attracting a man is like attracting your ideal clients.  When I say I attract men I attract all kinds of men, but I attract a LOT of high quality men.  Men who are passionate about what they do, have great jobs and awesome lives.  I attract other men too, but I decline dates if I feel as though I would not have fun.  This is just like ideal clients.  Many women come to me, and some are totally my ideal clients.  We hit it off.  My packages can totally serve them and they are ready to invest.  Some women come to me and they aren't my ideal client, so I decline working with them

Dating men is just like being visible online and in communities.  When I date men I am in so much appreciation for them and who they are as a person.  I don't look at one man as my source of happiness or my source of a partnership.  I am present and excited to be sharing time with them.  I also *know* what a freaking awesome date I am.  When I put myself out there online I do not see any one group, potential client or even package as my source to a thriving business.  I also *know* what a freaking awesome coach I am for my ideal clients. 

Having men serve my desires is just like the Universe serving my desires.  When I say men serve my desires I mean they do anything and everything to make me happy.  I am really clear about what I desire, if it is a specific restaurant, museum or movie I tell the man.  Then he has the chance to give me exactly what I desire, and that is what men (and the masculine) want to do.  Here is a secret: men just want to make women happy.  I know this is not how we are taught or the game that seems to be played, but I promise you this is the truth.  When you are clear with your desires to the Universe you give the Universe a chance to serve you exactly what you want, or something even better.  When you also start believing that we live in a Universe that wants to serve our desires you will start to see more of what you want. 

Like I said at the beginning of this e-mail, coming out and telling you this was tough for me.  But I have a deeper desire to share with you all that has helped me in my business AND my love life.  

And with that.....I am off to go on a lunch date with an Italian ;) I told you, this is how I run my business. 

To your sexy success!

Lauren