Hi gorgeous!
If you are reading this page, dare I say, you want to know a little bit more about moi, well I am so glad you asked!
I know that you want to know how you can be magnetic in life and love. You are looking through my website and at my photos and you may be thinking - it is so easy for me to be magnetic, but for you it is really a stretch.
Well I have a confession to make.
I haven't always been "The Magnetic Woman" in fact being magnetic was something that I learned to embody. To be completely honest with you I went through most of my life being consumed by self esteem issues and body shame. I had no idea how to flirt or date. If a guy would text me I would spend hours trying to figure out how to respond.
I went through 10 years of Catholic school, and being a good student I made sure to really internalize guilt and shame, especially about being a woman.
I always found safety in my accomplishments. I was a straight A student who enjoyed learning. I always pushed forward, succeeded, and came out on top. I was so proud of what I had accomplished in my professional career and quite honestly I resigned myself to just being single for awhile. I thought the more that I did the more worthy I was, and that in order to be lovable I had to DO - as in over give, over function and martyr myself.
I figured I would just focus on my career and finding success. But I hustled, I thought success meant pain and sacrifice. That you just keep working and then maybe some day you will feel worthy or enough. You know the real Puritan shit.
All the while I was shut down in my body. The idea of pleasure was completely foreign to me. I thought all things “Feminine” were things to avoid. You know if I was “Feminine” it means that I would be weak, needy, emotionally crazy, manipulative and I would NOT have any power.
Then my life changed in a way I never expected.
The loss of my father at age 25 challenged me, and ultimately led me to one of the most important decisions of my life.
I decided this experience would make me a better person AND I decided I was going to truly live a life that made me happy, starting right now.
this is where my gateway drug of self development comes in.
I found a program with the promise of “fun and pleasure”, and for a young woman grieving, that promise made me pull out my credit card faster than I go for a piece of chocolate cake.
The program provided so much more than just “fun and pleasure”, it provided me with mastery of my emotional landscape as a woman because it taught me how to BE A WOMAN. How to be strong, and feminine, how to have hustle, drive and be sensual.
How to truly awaken my sexual power, expand my orgasm and make me feel like the most powerful woman in the world!
I had more confidence, more fun, more happiness in my life.
I also saw how men responded to me in a completely different way.